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All Sex and No Commitment October 11, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — Vanesa @ 8:14 PM
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I think the hardest relationships to end are the ones with the sexual flames! You know which ones they are. The sex, amazing! Things are easily ignored and way too easily resolved. Before you know it all you have is a sex-relationship and the years are just flying by. Now that’s kinda of derailed you from finding someone else because you already have someone you have sex with, so all you really need is a meal and a movie. I think everyone has someone that they just have a sexual relationship with. You’ve been seeing each other for years, whether either one of you are in another relationship or not. Maybe, maybe not. Sometimes its the case where you guys just pretend your in a relationship together, when your together. Its like unspoken. Nobody mentions being with someone else but you kinda figure. My question is: how do you end something like that? Someone is going to get hurt. Can you really just have sex with someone for years and have no feelings involved? And when is enough, enough?

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love stinks October 9, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — Vanesa @ 6:47 PM
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So, today I’ve spent the day analyzing and over analyzing my disastrous supposed love life. I seriously have met some “awesome” guys (none of who like me) and “nightmare” guys. I know it ain’t easy out there….but seriously I think there’s a drought of single, working men. Right now I’m crushing on a crush. I feel like something is gonna go super sour if we hook up. Plus I don’t even know if he likes me, like that. And I know I’m not being cool about it because I really can’t control myself. Most interesting dude I’ve met in a long time. Plus it always seems like the ones you really like, never like you. What should I do? Its so easy for me to fall in and out of love, or is that lust? I would like to be in a relationship but its slim pickings out there.
I’m also thinking of a past love, who everyone else would LOVE for us to be together, but we can’t. We are perfect for each other but not in this lifetime. Its like we know each other so well, there’s nothing hidden, and I feel that that’s our downfall. We have seen the worse and best of each other, and its kinda weird, liberating, and judgment free (to some extent). So its also like there’s nothing left. Maybe? Well at this point its also a tad bit too late for us. He’s in a “committed” relationship.
So its on to the next one. As for the crush, I think I’m just gonna let it take its own course. That is until I get the courage to do something about it. I’ve taken that approach before and I feel like men mistake that for “she just wants to have sex.” But that’s so not the case, at least not always. So what to do, what to do?

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long time October 8, 2010

Filed under: influence,Social Media,Uncategorized — Vanesa @ 2:04 PM

It’s been awhile since I’ve done a blog entry, mainly because school is over and I passed the class that I started this blog for. But now I feel a need to talk. Lately its been really bothering that I’m all over the internet. And by all over I’m talking about all the things I’ve signed up for and hardly ever used, like Hi5. Who’s on Hi5? Shit, who’s on Oovoo? No one of importance that’s who? I just deleted my Myspace page just because no one but upcoming artist and very irrelevant people are on here. It just felt like a chore going on there and cleaning out my mailbox, all these wackass party promos…pointless!!! So I finally just said why the hell am I torturing myself. I’m kind of feeling the same way about Facebook…its too invasive. Now don’t get me wrong I’m just as nosy as everyone else…I wanna see the pictures and whether your in a relationship and if so, with who? So I kind of feel that my Spanish side needs these bits of information. I don’t wanna do what those in serious denial do, “hey let me go on your page so I can see so and so.” C’mon that’s wack. I would love to use something that would clear my internet history. Like the time I thought it would be a good idea to join BlackPlanet. What a disaster/nightmare!!

So what to do? Who knows? Anyone?